The Ultimate Guide to INFJ Crushes: Lessons 7 and 8

In your reveries, you’re likely idealizing your crush and what it means to be in a relationship with them.

The Ultimate Guide to INFJ Crushes: Lessons 5 and 6

You don’t have to make your entire life about your crush.

“What Happens After You Confess Your Feelings to Someone?” Chapters 1-3

Read the first three chapters of the YA romance “What Happens After You Confess Your Feelings to Someone?” It involves a complicated high school love triangle that takes place in the not-too-distant past.

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The Ultimate Guide to INFJ Crushes: Lessons 3 and 4

Most people won’t understand why you do what you do, and it’s very likely that your behavior will confuse you at times, too.

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The Ultimate Guide to INFJ Crushes: Lessons 1 and 2

Because of your outward focus, when you have an intense crush, it’s very easy for you to lose yourself in your crush.

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Dealing With Unrequited Love for a Coworker? What This Might Be Telling You

If you’re living a truly happy and fulfilling life, you’ll probably find it hard to waste precious time and energy loving someone who doesn’t return your affection.

How Can INFJs Stop Overthinking Their Crushes?

I don’t mean you should just be doing idle things to pass the time. You should be doing things that are meaningful to you.

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Why Is Distraction So Important for INFJs Moving On from a Crush?

Sometimes I think it would be nice to be able to have a crush and then move on as if I never had any feelings for that person.

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Are You an INFJ Who’s Tired of One-Sided Love? These 4 Tips Might Help You Avoid It

Sometimes we INFJs can be so lost in our own fantasy world that we forget reality doesn’t match the beautiful picture in our mind.

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How Can Being a Hopeless Romantic Make It Harder to Find Love?

While being this way might seem to make it easier to find love because you’re always looking for it, there are some problems that can come with this approach.

Should You Hold Onto Your Crush or Try Moving On?

Sometimes you have to move on or at least begin the healing process because you realize that you want more from your crush than they’re willing or able to give.

Why Should INFJs Use Logic When Trying to Move On from Unrequited Love?

Until an INFJ applies logic to the situation, they still won’t see these things as enough reason to move on.

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How Do You Stop Being in Love With the Idea of Someone?

When you find yourself dwelling on certain things and ignoring everything else, give yourself a reality check and remind yourself to take in the whole person.

How Do You Know When You’re in Love With the Idea of Someone?

If you don’t really know them, all your fantasies will be based on what you imagine would be wonderful to experience.

17 Journal Prompts for INFJ Unrequited Love

If you’re an INFJ or someone who loves deeply, these prompts will encourage you to ask yourself what this crush means to you and what your feelings for them say about how you feel about yourself.