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How Do You Stop Being in Love With the Idea of Someone?
How Do You Stop Being in Love With the Idea of Someone?

When you find yourself dwelling on certain things and ignoring everything else, give yourself a reality check and remind yourself to take in the whole person.

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What Causes INFJ Relationship Anxiety?
What Causes INFJ Relationship Anxiety?

INFJs are known to be perfectionists. And this desire to have everything be perfect extends to their relationships as well.

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5 Things INFJs and INFPs Should Keep in Mind Before Making a Love Confession
5 Things INFJs and INFPs Should Keep in Mind Before Making a Love Confession

If you pay too much attention to these racing thoughts, they might convince you not to confess to someone who is actually worthy of your love and affection.

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Are INFJs Hard to Love?
Are INFJs Hard to Love?

In this post, we’re going to look at four behaviors INFJs should be mindful of if they want to have healthy romantic relationships.

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5 Phrases All INFJs Should Adopt to Practice Effective Self-Care
5 Phrases All INFJs Should Adopt to Practice Effective Self-Care

INFJs who want to enhance their self-care routine could benefit from adding the following five phrases to their everyday lives.

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