About the Site

I believe that some people need a little more help than others when it comes to finding love, just as some people need a little more help than others when it comes to just about everything. The advice on this site is geared toward helping those who need a little extra help in matters of the heart. And I do truly hope it helps.

As an INFJ, one of the 16 Myers-Briggs personality types, I know what it means to love hard and deep. I know what it’s like to struggle to confess your feelings for someone. I know what it’s like to love in secret or from afar. I know what it’s like to have to move on from an unrequited crush. And I know what it’s like to struggle to find a romantic partner.

Believe me, I know. The advice I give here comes from what I’ve learned or experienced as a result of loving this way for so long.

But please know that even though the information I share is written from the perspective of an INFJ, I’m aware that not everyone ascribes to the Myers-Briggs philosophy. As long as you’re someone who loves deeper than most or who has ever struggled to reveal or release your feelings, you’ve come to the right place.

I encourage you to read and ponder what you find here over a cup of tisane or tea or whatever warm drink you prefer. And please share anything you find helpful!

~ Ashley C.

About Me

My name is Ashley C. Cantave and I’m the creator of Questions and Tisane. My mission is to give a voice to INFJs and other deep lovers who happen to be dealing with unrequited love and the complicated emotions that come with it.

I consider myself a tea-loving writer with the soul of a musician. When I’m not writing, I enjoy listening to fun or emotional music (depending on my mood), reading 19th century literature, or practicing my French and Spanish.

If you have a question about unrequited love, crushes, or anything at all, please contact me here.