How Do You Stop Being in Love With the Idea of Someone?

When you find yourself dwelling on certain things and ignoring everything else, give yourself a reality check and remind yourself to take in the whole person.

7 Tips for Building a New Relationship With an INFJ Who Left

Allowing your INFJ the space they need to understand how they feel about you will make it easier for them to feel comfortable with you again.

INFJ, RelationshipsAshley CantaveFebruary 2, 2023relationship, INFJ, build, new, left, rupture, leave, perspective, wrong, actions, consider, interpreted, perceive, space, trust, closer, feelings, emotions, process, comfortable, alone, recharge, alone time, encourage, open, communication, conflict, avoid, peace, bothering, discussing, anger, resentment, shut out, honest, angry, defensive, speak, listen, promises, tell, show, voice, expectations, behavior, partner, expect, roles, needs, plan, consistent, keep, habit, mindful, old habits, change, awareness, sincere, patient, heart, stronger, distant, INFJ door slam, care about, slow, journey Comments

Should You Text an INFJ First?

Sending a first text will convey the message that you like this INFJ and are interested in keeping in touch with them.

INFJ, INFJ Love, Modern LifeAshley CantaveJune 13, 2022text, INFJ, first, texting, texts, send, shy, self-conscious, rejection, first text, thinking, matter, interested, overthink, overanalyze, time, afraid, interesting, inconveniencing, first move, wait, interest, initiate, contact, relationship, bold, initial, wellbeing, thoughtful, trusts, listen, advice, care, questions, mind, question, understand, flirtier, acquaintances, friend, uncomfortable, new idea, unique, perspectiveComment

5 Behaviors That Might Unknowingly Repel an INFJ

While some of the following behaviors may be fine for someone an INFJ already knows well and trusts, people who are new in an INFJ’s life might want to avoid them.