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Should You Text an INFJ First?
Should You Text an INFJ First?

Sending a first text will convey the message that you like this INFJ and are interested in keeping in touch with them.

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If You’ve Struggled to Find Love, Try One of These Tips
If You’ve Struggled to Find Love, Try One of These Tips

A much better use of your time would be to focus on your own journey and what you can do to change your situation or your perspective on it.

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Why Do Other People Know Someone Likes You Before You Do?
Why Do Other People Know Someone Likes You Before You Do?

This phenomenon is very common for people of the INFJ personality type, though it’s not exclusive to us. But why does it happen at all? After giving it some thought, I’ve come up with four reasons.

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Common Lies People Tell Themselves When They Have Trouble Finding a Partner: Part 1
Common Lies People Tell Themselves When They Have Trouble Finding a Partner: Part 1

Here, I’m going to address five of the most common “I’m too…” lies people tell themselves when they find the journey for love to be a struggle.

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