Are You an INFJ Who’s Still Single? Try Asking Yourself These 5 Questions

Sometimes you may want a partner for reasons that are real to you, but it’s just not the best time for you to enter a relationship.

How Can Unrequited Love Help People Find Their Dream Partner?

In this post, we’re going to go deeper into how all your unrequited crushes can help lead you to the one meant for you.

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If You’ve Struggled to Find Love, Try One of These Tips

A much better use of your time would be to focus on your own journey and what you can do to change your situation or your perspective on it.

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Common Lies People Tell Themselves When They Have Trouble Finding a Partner: Part 1

Here, I’m going to address five of the most common “I’m too…” lies people tell themselves when they find the journey for love to be a struggle.

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7 Reasons Your Love May Often Be Unrequited

The people you’re most compatible with may not be who you expect.

Why Do We Try to Force People into Imaginary Molds?

Feeling forced into a mold is something common for INFJs, but it’s not unique to us.

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What Are Some INFJ Strengths and Weaknesses at Work?

When an INFJ is passionate about something, many of their weaknesses become unnoticeable.

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Can Authenticity Help INFJs Find True Love?

If you’re an INFJ who has struggled to find love, you may have had a lot of experience with the unrequited kind. Though there may be many reasons for this, a big one might be inauthenticity.

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Is It Worth Holding Onto an Unrequited Crush?

There are cases where it might be worthwhile to hold onto this type of love.

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What Keeps INFJs From Speaking?

In a world full of unexpressed desires, unconfessed love, and unspoken thoughts, people are still struggling to say what they want to say when they want to say it. INFJs in particular may be susceptible to this.

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Why Are We Afraid To Examine What We Believe?

Sometimes reexamining your beliefs is the only way to make them stronger.

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Why Do People Look Outside Themselves for Their Identity?

I see no problem in seeking guidance when searching for your life path. What I take issue with is when people feel incapable of discovering who they are on their own.

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How Do You Know It's Time To Go on a Journey of Self-Discovery?

Sometimes life forces us into molds. For a while, these molds can feel right and even natural. But at some point, you may come to a place where something doesn’t feel right.