If you find yourself confused about your next step, it’s probably because you have some deep internal work to do first.

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What Are Some INFJ Strengths and Weaknesses at Work?

When an INFJ is passionate about something, many of their weaknesses become unnoticeable.

How Should an INFJ Respond to a Confession of Love?

If you find yourself fortunate enough to have someone confess their love to you, the following five tips offer some guidance on how to answer.

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How Can an INFJ Deal With Unrequited Love?

Because your love is so strong, you have to be careful when dealing with the unrequited variety.

Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Editing Suite

A student in her school’s AV club struggles to tell a fellow club member that she likes him.

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Why Do Some INFJs Fall in Love So Easily?

If INFJs prefer what is deep and genuine, why would we settle for infatuation? My theory is that we feel a lack of love elsewhere.

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Differences Between Unrequited Love and No-Longer-Requited Love

Though there are similarities between unrequited love and what I call no-longer-requited love, there are also key differences. In this post, I talk about some of them.

How Can an INFJ Avoid Falling Too Deeply in Love with Someone They Just Met?

If you’re an INFJ with a tendency to fall in love easily with people you’ve just met, keep reading to find out how to take back some control of your emotions.

How Can an INFJ Tell a Friend That They Like Them?

If you’re an INFJ who needs some advice on how to tell a friend how you feel about them, these tips may help.

How Do You Tell an INFJ That You Like Them?

Here are five tips on how to tell an INFJ how you feel.

The Most Challenging Aspects of Loving as an INFJ

We INFJs should keep the following five things in mind when determining where to place our heart.

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Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Recital

A student goes a long way to show her crush how she feels.

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8 Things I Would Tell My First Crush If I Could See Him Again

When I fell in love with my fifth grade crush, my entire world shifted. If we happen to meet again, I’d like to tell him at least the following eight things.

The Positive Side to Unrequited Love

For even the most unpleasant things in life, when looked at from the right perspective, you can always find the positive. Unrequited love is no exception.

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4 Things I Wish I Knew Before Having My First Crush

My first official crush started when I was nine years old. I liked boys before him, but until my crush on him began, I had never felt that strong an attachment to another person.

8 Things INFJs Should Never Do in the Middle of an Unrequited Crush

If you’re an INFJ whose love for someone is unrequited, you may be tempted to make some desperate moves. Here’s a list of eight unhealthy behaviors you should definitely avoid.

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Can Authenticity Help INFJs Find True Love?

If you’re an INFJ who has struggled to find love, you may have had a lot of experience with the unrequited kind. Though there may be many reasons for this, a big one might be inauthenticity.

What Responses Can an INFJ Expect after a Confession of Love?

Tired of settling for unconfessed love, you’ve found the courage to tell your crush how you feel. Now what will they say or do in response? And how should you react to these responses? Here’s my take.