Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: Poetry Unit

A high school sophomore writes a Valentine’s Day poem for a boy in her English class.

Should an INFJ Tell Their Crush How They Feel?

I believe it’s a good idea to tell the person you love that you love them. But experience has taught me that INFJs have to be selective about when to make this kind of confession.

Is It Worth Holding Onto an Unrequited Crush?

There are cases where it might be worthwhile to hold onto this type of love.

How Can an INFJ Move On from Unrequited Love?

Because INFJs aren’t known for letting go of things easily, letting something like this go can be especially hard for them.

Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: Guitar Class Part 2

A high school student finds a way to help her crush’s band with their sound.

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Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: Guitar Class Part 1

A high school student finds a way to help her crush’s band with their sound.

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A New Series: Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love

This year, I’ve decided to start a new chapter in the life of Questions and Tisane.

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Why Do INFJs Push Themselves So Hard?

INFJs are known to be perfectionists. As an INFJ, I know what it feels like when perfectionism gets the best of you.

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What Does Unrequited Love Feel Like for an INFJ?

I have a lot of experience with unrequited love. But as an INFJ, even when my love isn’t reciprocated, I love intensely.

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Why Do We Like To Oversimplify?

Reality rarely falls into neat categories.

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What Keeps INFJs From Speaking?

In a world full of unexpressed desires, unconfessed love, and unspoken thoughts, people are still struggling to say what they want to say when they want to say it. INFJs in particular may be susceptible to this.

Why Are We Afraid To Examine What We Believe?

Sometimes reexamining your beliefs is the only way to make them stronger.

Why Is There So Much Emphasis on Positivity?

What if expressing how you really feel instead of always pretending everything is fine makes you happy?

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Why Do We Measure Self-Worth in "Likes" and "Follows"?

The internet has given people yet another way to compare themselves—in “likes” and “follows.”

Why Do People Look Outside Themselves for Their Identity?

I see no problem in seeking guidance when searching for your life path. What I take issue with is when people feel incapable of discovering who they are on their own.

Why Is Letting Go So Hard for INFJs?

Everyone has things it’s hard for them to let go of. For INFJs in particular, though, letting go can be even more difficult. But why? Why is it so hard?

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How Do You Know It's Time To Go on a Journey of Self-Discovery?

Sometimes life forces us into molds. For a while, these molds can feel right and even natural. But at some point, you may come to a place where something doesn’t feel right.

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How Do You Know It's Time To Go on a Journey of Rediscovery?

Anytime you find yourself taking a trip down memory lane, that’s a kind of journey of rediscovery. If you find yourself doing that often, that’s usually a sign that it’s time to go on a deliberate journey of rediscovery.

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What Is a Journey of Self-Discovery Like for an INFJ?

Every person would benefit from going on a journey of self-discovery at least once in their life. But embarking on this particular quest may feel more instinctive to INFJs.

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