How to Get Over an Unrequited Crush That Has Lasted for Years

If this person has had any sort of presence in your life, even if only in your mind, they’ve been serving you in some way.

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Are You Seeking Love or Deep Human Connection?

Sometimes you don’t want all the responsibilities that come with being in a relationship. Sometimes you just want a friend to talk to.

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The Importance of Gratitude While Waiting for That Special Someone

It’s easy to take for granted all the other people in your life because of this one person you’re still waiting for.

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What Does It Mean When an INFJ Dreams About a Former Crush?

For INFJs who are innately intuitive, dreaming of a former crush can take on even more significance than for other personality types.

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Why Do Some INFJs Fall in Love So Easily?

If INFJs prefer what is deep and genuine, why would we settle for infatuation? My theory is that we feel a lack of love elsewhere.

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Differences Between Unrequited Love and No-Longer-Requited Love

Though there are similarities between unrequited love and what I call no-longer-requited love, there are also key differences. In this post, I talk about some of them.

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A Gift for Single Women on Valentine's Day 2021

I know this isn’t my usual post day, but I decided to offer all the single women out there a special gift for Valentine’s Day.

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Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: Poetry Unit

A high school sophomore writes a Valentine’s Day poem for a boy in her English class.

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