How Can INFJs Move On from an Unrequited Crush Without Closure?

Sometimes we have to let go because the other person has clearly moved on and all we’re doing is holding onto a beautiful dream—a dream of what might have been.

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Why Do INFJs and Other Deep Lovers Hold Onto Love for So Long?

When you love so deeply, things like facts, reality, and logic tend to take a backseat.

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A Lesson in INFJ Rumination

Looking back, I realize that I might have been able to avoid all this if I had been able to think about something else all day.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveOctober 21, 2021INFJ, crush, ruminate, rumination, unrequited love, friendship, relationship, fantasies, fantasize, reject, rejection, open, indecisive, indecision, yes or no, feelings, lessons, response, confession Comments

6 Things INFJs Should Keep in Mind When Texting Their Crush

Don’t panic when your crush doesn’t respond right away.

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Lessons I Learned from Unrequited Love

After many years of experience with unrequited love, I’ve learned lessons that have taught me how to be more cautious with my feelings. Here are seven of them.

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Do INFJs Know When Someone Likes Them?

Yes, we INFJs usually know when someone likes us. But we’re often in denial about it.

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What Does It Mean When an INFJ Dreams About a Former Crush?

For INFJs who are innately intuitive, dreaming of a former crush can take on even more significance than for other personality types.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveAugust 19, 2021INFJ, crush, familiarity, comfort, longing, feelings, emotions, resurface, peace, dreams, theories, loveComment

Why Do INFJs Make Great Partners For People Who Have Been Hurt in Love?

If you’re someone who’s been hurt in love but who’s ready to try a new relationship, here are five reasons why an INFJ would be a great partner for you.

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How Can an INFJ Avoid Falling Too Deeply in Love with Someone They've Never Met?

If you’re an INFJ who tends to fall in love with people you’ve never met, the following tips may help keep you from losing your mind over them.

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How Can an INFJ Handle Rejecting Someone Who Confesses Their Love For Them?

Since INFJs feel everything so deeply, this type of rejection can be especially hard for them. In this post, I offer advice on how to handle the situation.

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How Should an INFJ Respond to a Confession of Love?

If you find yourself fortunate enough to have someone confess their love to you, the following five tips offer some guidance on how to answer.

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How Can an INFJ Deal With Unrequited Love?

Because your love is so strong, you have to be careful when dealing with the unrequited variety.

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Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Editing Suite

A student in her school’s AV club struggles to tell a fellow club member that she likes him.

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Why Do Some INFJs Fall in Love So Easily?

If INFJs prefer what is deep and genuine, why would we settle for infatuation? My theory is that we feel a lack of love elsewhere.

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How Can an INFJ Avoid Falling Too Deeply in Love with Someone They Just Met?

If you’re an INFJ with a tendency to fall in love easily with people you’ve just met, keep reading to find out how to take back some control of your emotions.

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How Can an INFJ Tell a Friend That They Like Them?

If you’re an INFJ who needs some advice on how to tell a friend how you feel about them, these tips may help.

INFJ, INFJ Love, Love Confessions, FriendshipAshley CantaveMarch 22, 2021friend, confession, INFJ crush, couple, response, feelings, emotions, thoughts, questions, relationship, love, write Comments

How Do You Tell an INFJ That You Like Them?

Here are five tips on how to tell an INFJ how you feel.

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The Most Challenging Aspects of Loving as an INFJ

We INFJs should keep the following five things in mind when determining where to place our heart.

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Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Recital

A student goes a long way to show her crush how she feels.

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8 Things I Would Tell My First Crush If I Could See Him Again

When I fell in love with my fifth grade crush, my entire world shifted. If we happen to meet again, I’d like to tell him at least the following eight things.

INFJ Love, RelationshipsAshley CantaveMarch 8, 2021INFJ love, first crush, questions, search, find, courage, happiness, heart, fifth grade, forget, remind, teach, INFJ crush, see again, meet againComment

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