Yes, we INFJs usually know when someone likes us. But we’re often in denial about it.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveSeptember 27, 2021INFJ, intuition, crush, feelings, emotions, romantic, denial, aware, awareness, self-esteem, love, relationship Comments

What Does It Mean When an INFJ Dreams About a Former Crush?

For INFJs who are innately intuitive, dreaming of a former crush can take on even more significance than for other personality types.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveAugust 19, 2021INFJ, crush, familiarity, comfort, longing, feelings, emotions, resurface, peace, dreams, theories, love Comments

Why Do INFJs Make Great Partners For People Who Have Been Hurt in Love?

If you’re someone who’s been hurt in love but who’s ready to try a new relationship, here are five reasons why an INFJ would be a great partner for you.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveJuly 8, 2021INFJ, hurt, heal, relationship, ready, heart, healer, emapthy, emotions, fragile, needs, deep, intense, love, partner, long-term, committedComment

How Can an INFJ Avoid Falling Too Deeply in Love with Someone They’ve Never Met?

If you’re an INFJ who tends to fall in love with people you’ve never met, the following tips may help keep you from losing your mind over them.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveJuly 1, 2021INFJ, crush, unrequited love, meet, celebrity, feelings, emotions, outlet, idea, fantasize, fantasy, reality, loveComment

How Can an INFJ Handle Rejecting Someone Who Confesses Their Love For Them?

Since INFJs feel everything so deeply, this type of rejection can be especially hard for them. In this post, I offer advice on how to handle the situation.

How Should an INFJ Respond to a Confession of Love?

If you find yourself fortunate enough to have someone confess their love to you, the following five tips offer some guidance on how to answer.

INFJ, INFJ Love, Love ConfessionsAshley CantaveApril 19, 2021INFJ, crush, confession, rejection, intensity, wait, process, explain, understand, needs, desires, like, love, open, honest, relationshipComment

How Can an INFJ Deal With Unrequited Love?

Because your love is so strong, you have to be careful when dealing with the unrequited variety.

Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Editing Suite

A student in her school’s AV club struggles to tell a fellow club member that she likes him.

INFJ, INFJ Love, StoriesAshley CantaveApril 8, 2021unrequited love, INFJ love, crush, television, film, AV club, editing suite, school, show, produce, engineer, feelings, confessionComment

Why Do Some INFJs Fall in Love So Easily?

If INFJs prefer what is deep and genuine, why would we settle for infatuation? My theory is that we feel a lack of love elsewhere.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveApril 1, 2021INFJ, love, infatuation, shallow, deep, longing, search, emptiness, enigma, mystery, INFJ crush, understanding, acceptanceComment

How Can an INFJ Avoid Falling Too Deeply in Love with Someone They Just Met?

If you’re an INFJ with a tendency to fall in love easily with people you’ve just met, keep reading to find out how to take back some control of your emotions.

How Can an INFJ Tell a Friend That They Like Them?

If you’re an INFJ who needs some advice on how to tell a friend how you feel about them, these tips may help.

How Do You Tell an INFJ That You Like Them?

Here are five tips on how to tell an INFJ how you feel.

The Most Challenging Aspects of Loving as an INFJ

We INFJs should keep the following five things in mind when determining where to place our heart.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveMarch 15, 2021INFJ love, unrequited love, reciprocal, heart, emotions, feelings, soulmate, life partner, depth, deep, relationship, needs, fantasize, idealize, ideal, partnerComment

Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: The Recital

A student goes a long way to show her crush how she feels.

INFJ, INFJ Love, StoriesAshley CantaveMarch 11, 2021unrequited love, INFJ love, INFJ crush, recital, concert, viola, girlfriend, boyfriend, relationship, distance, travelComment

8 Things I Would Tell My First Crush If I Could See Him Again

When I fell in love with my fifth grade crush, my entire world shifted. If we happen to meet again, I’d like to tell him at least the following eight things.

4 Things I Wish I Knew Before Having My First Crush

My first official crush started when I was nine years old. I liked boys before him, but until my crush on him began, I had never felt that strong an attachment to another person.

8 Things INFJs Should Never Do in the Middle of an Unrequited Crush

If you’re an INFJ whose love for someone is unrequited, you may be tempted to make some desperate moves. Here’s a list of eight unhealthy behaviors you should definitely avoid.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveFebruary 25, 2021unrequited love, crush, healthy, unhealthy, INFJ, reach out, relationship, friendship, communicate, emotions, feelings, love, behaviors, avoidComment

What Responses Can an INFJ Expect after a Confession of Love?

Tired of settling for unconfessed love, you’ve found the courage to tell your crush how you feel. Now what will they say or do in response? And how should you react to these responses? Here’s my take.

INFJ, INFJ Love, Love ConfessionsAshley CantaveFebruary 18, 2021INFJ, love, confession, relationship, friendship, open, rejection, partner, dignity, distance, move on, unrequited, reciprocal, response, ruminateComment

Tales of Unrequited INFJ Love: Poetry Unit

A high school sophomore writes a Valentine’s Day poem for a boy in her English class.

Should an INFJ Tell Their Crush How They Feel?

I believe it’s a good idea to tell the person you love that you love them. But experience has taught me that INFJs have to be selective about when to make this kind of confession.

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