How Do You Know It's Time To Go on a Journey of Self-Discovery?

Sometimes life forces us into molds. For a while, these molds can feel right and even natural. But at some point, you may come to a place where something doesn’t feel right.

INFJ, Self-DiscoveryAshley CantaveMarch 26, 2020journey, self-discovery, disconnect, mold, questions, answers, beliefs, habit, permission, INFJComment

How Do You Know It's Time To Go on a Journey of Rediscovery?

Anytime you find yourself taking a trip down memory lane, that’s a kind of journey of rediscovery. If you find yourself doing that often, that’s usually a sign that it’s time to go on a deliberate journey of rediscovery.

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What Is a Journey of Self-Discovery Like for an INFJ?

Every person would benefit from going on a journey of self-discovery at least once in their life. But embarking on this particular quest may feel more instinctive to INFJs.

What Is a Journey of Rediscovery Like for an INFJ?

For me, rediscovery requires going back—back to a time when things made sense—back to the familiar.

INFJ, RediscoveryAshley CantaveMarch 5, 2020rediscovery, INFJ, memories, remember, past, journey, process, find yourself, start over, childhood, self-discoveryComment

Why Can't Real Life Be More Like the Movies?

If we collectively decide and agree that we like to see certain things in movies—like happy endings—why can’t we collectively decide and agree to work toward those things in life?

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Why Do INFJs Love So Hard?

My personality type is INFJ. That means—among other things—that when I love, I love hard. Here’s an example.

INFJ, INFJ LoveAshley CantaveFebruary 20, 2020INFJ, love, emotions, deep, boy, man, school, fantasy, life, friends, feelings, social media Comments

What Do You Do If You're Single and Don't Want to Be?

If you’re single and you don’t want to be, there are plenty of things you can do. Before you do any of these things, though, you have to ask yourself something. Why do you want a partner?

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Why Does "Happily Ever After" Usually Start With Marriage?

Is it not possible for a single person to live happily ever after?

Single LifeAshley CantaveFebruary 6, 2020happily, ever, after, love, life, single, stigma, romantic, ending, wedding, marriage, couple, alone, partnerComment

Why Do We Forget Loved Ones Who Aren't on Social Media?

In 2013, I did an experiment. Tired of receiving stale, Facebook-prompted birthday wishes, I took my birthday off Facebook to see what would happen. And here’s what happened.