How It Works

Like with the Basic Version of the assessment, you won’t have to share the details of your (unrequited) love life through video calls or sit through any awkward conversations. Instead, the entire process will be done through deep, written reflection.

Step 1: The Romantic Narrative Questionnaire

You’ll start by filling out the Romantic Narrative Questionnaire. This is a series of questions that will guide you to describe your current crush (if you have one), your past crush/relationship patterns, and your childhood experiences with feeling seen. You’ll fill this out before submitting your payment. As soon as you click the “ADD TO CART” button, the questionnaire will appear.

Step 2: The Romantic Narrative Assessment

Once you submit your questionnaire (and payment), within five business days I’ll provide you with a document that includes a written analysis of your romantic patterns and crush projections. I’ll email it to you as an attachment. (For example, if you submit your questionnaire and payment on a Friday, Saturday, or Sunday, I’ll send you the document no later than the following Friday.) This document will be in the form of a beautifully designed 8-10 page PDF written just for you. Inside, you’ll find the following:

• An Analysis of Your Patterns: This will help you better understand why you keep crushing on the same kinds of people so you’re more aware of the changes you need to make if you would like to enjoy reciprocal love.

• The Projection Breakdown: This will help you realize where you’ve fallen in love with the fantasy of your crush rather than the objective reality of them, which can in turn help you start taking actions in the real world that could lead to real-life, reciprocal relationships.

It’s Time to Get Your Life Back

If you don’t want to keep using your emotional energy to repeat romantic patterns that aren’t serving you, it’s time to change them. Get the Plus Version of the Romantic Narrative Assessment and start breaking those patterns today.

And remember that the PDF you receive is a document you can keep forever. That means you can always refer back to it when you need to.

Want to Go Deeper?

If you want to go from analysis to implementation, you can check out the Premium Version of the Romantic Narrative Assessment. It includes the crush pattern analysis and the projection breakdown, along with action steps you can take to begin changing unhelpful behavior and moving toward a more fulfilling future.

And if you would like help rewriting your life story so you’re the main character rather than a supporting one—unrequited love can put us into more of a supporting role—feel free to check out my Narrative Correction.

Note: The Romantic Narrative Assessment isn’t a replacement for counseling or therapy. If you’re in need of professional counseling or therapy, please see a qualified professional. You must be at least 18 years old for me to provide you with the assessment.

If I have any questions about your Romantic Narrative Questionnaire, I may send you an email for clarification.

If you don’t receive the Romantic Narrative Assessment within the window I’ve provided, please check your other folders, including your Spam folder. And if after checking your other folders you find that you still haven’t received it, send me an email at ashleyc@questionsandtisane.com to let me know.

Please know that when you submit a payment, you’re agreeing to the Questions and Tisane Privacy Policy. Please read it before submitting a payment.

Refund Policy: I offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If for any reason you’re unsatisfied with your Romantic Narrative Assessment, just send me an email within 30 days, and I’ll refund your payment to you. (Day 1 is the day you submit your payment.)