The Reality of One-Sided Love

You’re not stuck because you lack willpower. You’re stuck because you’re living out a story that’s no longer serving you.

You are a deep, highly capable individual. And yet, when it comes to love, you find yourself falling into the same patterns over and over again—tying your happiness, your focus, and your sense of self to someone who cannot or will not love you back.

Well-meaning friends and family may tell you to just “move on” or “get over it” when they see you struggling with unrequited feelings. But while you may understand intellectually that it’s not worth it to hold on, you might find the strength of unrequited connections to be stronger than your logic. And you might also find that they’re more appealing to your heart, mind, and subconscious.

Here’s what you need to know: Unrequited love isn’t just about the other person.

It’s a survival mechanism. It’s a subconscious strategy to keep you safe. By investing your emotional energy into an unavailable person, your mind achieves two things simultaneously—it experiences the high that comes from an intense romantic connection while protecting you from the vulnerability of a real, reciprocal relationship.

The Romantic Narrative Assessment is designed to step away from the emotional noise, look at your romantic history from an objective perspective, and identify your romantic patterns so you can finally break free from them.

How It Works

You don’t have to share the details of your (unrequited) love life through live video calls. And you won’t have to sit through any awkward conversations. Instead, the entire process will be done through deep, written reflection, giving you the space you need to go deep and giving me the space I need to provide a comprehensive analysis for you.

Step 1: The Romantic Narrative Questionnaire

You’ll start by filling out the Romantic Narrative Questionnaire. This is a series of questions that will guide you to describe your current crush (if you have one) and your past crush/relationship loops. You’ll fill this out before submitting your payment. As soon as you click the “ADD TO CART” button, the questionnaire will appear.

Step 2: The Romantic Narrative Assessment

Once you submit your questionnaire (and payment), I’ll provide a written analysis of your romantic patterns. I’ll email it to you as an attachment within five business days. (Day 1 is the day I receive your questionnaire and payment.) This analysis will be in the form of a beautifully designed 5-8 page PDF written just for you. Inside, you’ll find the following:

• An Analysis of Your Loops: A precise mapping of your repeating patterns and why your mind selects them. This will help you better understand why you keep crushing on the same kinds of people so you’re more aware of the changes you need to make if you would like to enjoy reciprocal love.

It’s Time to Get Your Life Back

If you don’t want to keep using your emotional energy to repeat romantic patterns that aren’t serving you, it’s time to change them. Get the Basic Version of the Romantic Narrative Assessment and start breaking those patterns today.

And remember that the PDF you receive is a document you can keep forever. That means you can always refer back to it when you need to.

Want to Go Deeper?

If you would like to go even deeper into analyzing your crush patterns, you can get the Plus Version of the Romantic Narrative Assessment. In addition to providing the pattern analysis, it will also give you a crush projection breakdown so you can better understand where you’re falling in love more with the fantasy of your crushes than the reality of them.

Or you can check out the Premium Version of the assessment, which includes the projection breakdown along with action steps you can take to begin breaking unhelpful patterns and moving toward a more fulfilling future.

Note: The Romantic Narrative Assessment isn’t a replacement for counseling or therapy. If you’re in need of professional counseling or therapy, please see a qualified professional. You must be at least 18 years old for me to provide you with the assessment.

If you don’t receive the Romantic Narrative Assessment within the window I’ve provided, please check your other folders, including your Spam folder. And if after checking your other folders you find that you still haven’t received it, send me an email at ashleyc@questionsandtisane.com to let me know.

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Refund Policy: I offer a 15-day money-back guarantee. If for any reason you’re unsatisfied with your Romantic Narrative Assessment, just send me an email within 15 days, and I’ll refund your payment to you. (Day 1 is the day you receive your assessment.)