Narrative Correction for INFJs
Narrative Correction for INFJs
If you’re someone of the INFJ personality type, there are many wonderful things about you. To name some examples, you’re an incredible writer. You’re very empathetic. And you like to go deep where others would prefer to stay superficial.
But with all these wonderful qualities may come other tendencies, like a tendency to take a more passive approach to life. You would rather lose yourself in fantasy and deep emotions than do what’s necessary to make your own life truly fulfilling.
One of the things that can keep you taking this passive approach is the idea that “this is just the way you are,” meaning this is the way you always will be. This is because that’s the story you’re telling yourself.
You’re telling yourself you don’t have what it takes to make big changes. You’re telling yourself unrequited love is all you’ll ever get to experience. You’re telling yourself you need someone to come rescue you, and in the meantime you’ll content yourself with fantasy.
Maybe you don’t even feel empowered to make changes. Maybe you’re so used to your patterns, habits, internal dialogue, and the way your current life looks that you really think that’s all there is.
But that’s not all there is.
And when I provide you with an alternate way to view your life, you’ll be able to see more clearly how wonderful and fulfilling it has the potential to become.
That’s the purpose of Narrative Correction for INFJs.
Admit it. Your story could use a rewrite.
You might not have thought about it before. But when you pause and pay attention, you may start to realize how stagnant and unfulfilling your life has been. You haven’t been moving forward. You’ve just been waiting for life to happen. Waiting for things to take shape on their own.
Maybe, instead of using your energy to move forward, you’ve been funneling it into unrequited love or habits that don’t allow you to make progress. I know how much easier it is to hold onto these tendencies than do the hard work of making your own life fulfilling.
But deep down, you know you long for more. More fulfillment. More excitement. Meaningful relationships. Forward motion.
All of that starts by correcting your story so you’re not the side character or the self-sabotager anymore.
It’s time for you to be the hero.
Narrative Correction for INFJs
If you would like to begin correcting your narrative, you’ll start by filling out the Narrative Correction for INFJs Questionnaire. It’s a series of questions that will allow you to provide information about your history, your habits, your patterns, your struggles, your values, and your ideal vision for a future life. You’ll fill out this form before making a payment. As soon as you click the “ADD TO CART” button, the questionnaire will appear.
Then, within five business days, I’ll email a Narrative Correction back to you as an attachment. It will be in the form of a beautifully designed 10-15 page PDF. This document will include details you’ve provided, along with a profound shift. You won’t be the disempowered side character anymore, content to just watch things happen or wait for things to happen. Instead, you’ll be the hero who comes to your own rescue. You’ll find solutions to your challenges. You’ll overcome obstacles that may be keeping you from feeling fulfilled.
Here’s an example of a story you might be telling yourself before a Narrative Correction:
“All my life, I’ve only experienced unrequited love. I don’t know why the people I love don’t return my affection. I must be broken or fundamentally flawed somehow. But I don’t think I’ll ever find true love, so I might as well give up the search now.”
And here’s the story after a Narrative Correction:
“So far in my life, I’ve only experienced unrequited love. But I’ve recently been analyzing my crush patterns, and I’ve realized that I tend to be drawn to people who are emotionally unavailable. One of the reasons for this is that I don’t actually feel ready for a mature, adult relationship yet. I just like the fluttery feelings I get when I have a crush. I like that emotional high. So, it’s easier for me to choose people who aren’t open to the kind of relationship I thought I was ready for.
“I’ve decided to focus more on getting to know myself better. And when I feel more open to having a reciprocal relationship, I’ll make sure to pay attention to early signs of emotional unavailability. I know there’s nothing wrong with me. I just haven’t allowed myself to be drawn to people who are ready for and open to a real relationship.”
Get the Narrative Correction for INFJs, and this kind of story alteration could be yours.
Also Included: The Strategic Roadmap
Along with your Narrative Correction, I’ll provide you with a Strategic Roadmap within the same PDF document. This will detail steps you can start taking to begin moving your life forward and making that new narrative your reality.
For instance, in the example above, I would suggest you take that crush pattern analysis and look deep to find out why you might be repeating those patterns. And if you discover that you’re often drawn to emotionally unavailable people, I would ask you to list some signs of emotional unavailability that you’ve noticed with past crushes. Then, going forward, I would suggest you look at that list every time you have a crush to make sure you’re not still repeating those patterns. You might also want to write a separate list that states the opposite qualities, or signs of emotional availability that you do want to look for.
But, of course, your Strategic Roadmap will be tailored for you and your specific challenges.
And remember that this PDF is a document you can keep forever. That means you can refer back to it whenever you want to remind yourself of how powerful you are and how capable you are of building a life that feels happy, fun, and fulfilling to you.
(If you’re interested in focusing on analyzing crush and unrequited love patterns, you might want to check out my Romantic Narrative Assessment, which you can find here.)
Ready to Change Your Narrative?
Now the choice is yours.
You can continue using unrequited love as an escape from an unfulfilling reality. You can continue feeding habits that aren’t serving you or helping you move forward. And you can continue finding ways to avoid having to feel that deep emptiness you have because you know you could be doing better.
Or you could choose to correct your narrative so you can see more clearly how much better your life has the potential to become and so you feel more empowered to take the steps necessary to begin transforming it.
Which will you choose?
If you know you’re ready to start reclaiming your inner power and rewriting your narrative, go ahead and purchase a Narrative Correction for INFJs today.
Note: Narrative Correction for INFJs isn’t a replacement for counseling or therapy. If you’re in need of professional counseling or therapy, please see a qualified professional. You must be at least 18 years old for me to provide you with a Narrative Correction.
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