About Crush Coaching

I know what it’s like when you have an intense or complicated crush. I know the kinds of crazy, mixed-up emotions you can go through. I know about pining after someone who doesn’t return your affection. And I know how hard it can be to move on from an unrequited crush you’ve held onto for years.

Believe me, I know.

When you have a crush like this, you might want to talk to someone about it, but you might fear judgment. For instance, if you’ve been dealing with unrequited love for years, you might be afraid that anyone you talk to will be quick to say, “Move on!” or “Why don’t you just get over it?” In this situation, you might prefer to keep your feelings to yourself.

Crush Coaching Is for You If You’ve Ever Wrestled With Strong Feelings for Someone

But you might still wish you had someone to talk to. Someone who could help you sort through all the intense feelings you’re dealing with. Someone who could help you answer questions like…

“Why do I feel so strongly for this person?”
“Should I confess or try to move on?”
“Should I just continue to love them in silence?”
“Am I wrong for feeling this way?”

I know from firsthand experience what it’s like to have these strong feelings and want to talk to someone about them—someone who won’t judge me for who I’ve fallen in love with. As someone of the INFJ personality, my love can be intense. And I also have plenty of experience with unrequited crushes.

I believe some people need a little more help than others when it comes to love. And when you’re wrestling with complicated emotions, it can be hard to know what to do with them without some guidance. As someone who has been there, I help people who are dealing with a complicated crush and find themselves unsure what to do about it.

My Approach to Crush Coaching

With compassion, depth, and a non-judgmental approach, I support clients in sorting through their feelings and getting clearer on what their next step should be so they can move forward and live without regret.

Ultimately, I know what you want is to be happy and for the person you love to be happy. You’re just wondering what that looks like, and whether it involves you together in a romantic relationship. My job is not to judge you or your feelings for this person. I believe your feelings are valid. But I also believe that, often, the answers you’re searching for are inside you. You just may not know how to find them. That’s what a coach can help you do. And as your coach, that’s what I will help you do.

If you’re interested in working with me, start by filling out the coaching application form below so I have a better understanding of your current situation. We can then schedule a free 20-minute consultation over Google Chat or by phone* so I can get a sense of whether we’re a good fit for each other. If I think we are, I’ll help you decide which of my coaching services is right for you.

My Coaching Services

These are the two coaching services I’m currently offering:

  • $75 USD for a 50-minute session over Google Chat or by phone*

  • $250 USD for unlimited online messaging through Google Chat for one (1) week (7 days)**

For more information about my coaching services, please read my Crush Coaching Policy. And if you have any questions, feel free to contact me here.

I look forward to working with you!

~ Ashley C.

*Phone calls are currently only available to people in the US.

**You can message me at any time during this time period, and I’ll respond during my coaching hours (Monday-Friday, 1pm-5:30pm EST, excluding major US holidays).

 

If You’re Interested in Exploring Crush Coaching, Your First Step Is to Complete This Form

Coaching Application Form

Note: All coaching sessions that take place over Google Chat will require a Google account, as will all messaging periods.

Disclaimer: Coaching is not a replacement for counseling or therapy. If you’re in need of either of these services, please see a qualified professional. You must be at least 18 years old for me to work with you as a coach.