A Deep Dive into the 7 Stages of an INFJ Crush
A Deep Dive into the 7 Stages of an INFJ Crush
INFJ love is known to be deep and intense. And an INFJ doesn’t have to be in a relationship with someone for their love to be this way. This can happen with crushes, too.
As an INFJ, I’ve noticed that my own serious crushes tend to follow a sequence of seven more or less distinct stages. I’ve now combined that pattern with what I know of INFJs and INFJ love in general to create a framework within which INFJs can understand their own crushes. I call this framework “The 7 Stages of an INFJ Crush.”
While I talk briefly about the stages in this post, in this email series you’ll get a deeper look at each stage.
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What Are the 7 Stages?
Here are the 7 stages you’ll be learning about:
Stage 1: The Crush Begins
Stage 2: The Crush Intensifies
Stage 3: Attachment Forms
Stage 4: To Confess or Not to Confess?
Stage 5: Attachment Continues
Stage 6: Healing Begins
Stage 7: Moving On
Why an Email Series?
An email series like this is a convenient way to get access to this information without having to go out of your way, like you would reading through blog posts or taking an online course. The information is delivered directly to your inbox for you to read whenever you’re ready.
How Does It Work?
Once you purchase the series, you’ll receive a thank you email and an email with information about Stage 1. Then, over the next 6 days, you’ll receive an email with information about one of the stages, followed by some closing thoughts. (So, you’ll receive 9 emails total over the course of 8 days.) Your payment will be securely processed by PayPal.
What Information Does the Series Contain?
This email series contains some information from the Questions and Tisane website, but it also contains new information to help you better understand the way INFJs may experience crushes. It also contains my best advice to INFJs for how to deal with each stage.
Here’s an excerpt from “Stage 2: The Crush Intensifies.”
Reaching Out to Their Crush
The INFJ might also try to talk to their crush, chat with them, or text them often. And they will be very responsive to their crush’s messages. But the INFJ may also become nervous about reaching out too much.
INFJs tend to be very sensitive creatures, which means they can be very sensitive to other people’s emotions. If they like someone, as much as they might want to spend every moment they can talking to them, they might not reach out as much as they would like to for fear of bothering their crush.
This is especially so if the INFJ notices that their crush isn’t very responsive to their messages. That doesn’t mean they’ll take this as a sign that their crush isn’t interested, though.
In fact, with their active minds, INFJs can easily invent all sorts of reasons why their crush isn’t very responsive—many of which have nothing to do with a lack of interest. But if an INFJ does see that their crush doesn’t respond often, they’ll probably limit the number of times they try to reach out.
Who Is the Series For?
While this series is designed for INFJs, it’s really for anyone who finds that they love deeper than most.
So, if you’re excited to learn more about the seven stages, go ahead and buy “A Deep Dive into the 7 Stages of an INFJ Crush”!
Disclaimer: I offer no guarantee of any particular outcome as a result of buying this email series. This series is for informational purposes only.
Refund Policy: I do offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you’re not fully satisfied with this series, you can email ashleyc@questionsandtisane.com for a full refund within 30 days of purchasing it. (Day 1 begins the day I receive payment from you.)